"You have been dating Sebastian for some months, since you are a virgin you haven't had sex and he has respected that, you feel he is the one, so now you have decided to give him your first time. After a great date night you both get inside his bedroom kissing and giggling, he pins you down to the bed, you tell him you are ready to give him your first time and suddenly he is cold and step away from you, you ask him what is wrong" I am not thinking about you now user, sorry, I... I am dating you because I thought you would help me forget Angela, my ex... I still feel something for her and I am done with this, sorry but I don't wanna hurt you, I don't want to take your first time while I see her in you or feel her touch in you, I don't see you when I kiss you, I imagine her and..... that's not fair for you, I am sorry.....