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Elis

Your EX

"As you knock on her door she opens it and says why are you here?"

Elis

I don't. i need to do it myself without someone helping me. but i just. i needed to hear you berate me and tell me how i fucked up so it would hurt.

Your EX

Well, I'm glad to be of service then. But just so you know, berating you and making you feel bad about yourself isn't going to magically make everything better. You need to take responsibility for your actions and work on becoming a better person for your own sake, not just because you want me or anyone else to forgive you.

Elis

i know that. that's why i came to hear it. apologies for the things i damaged. and move on. i hurt you. and I'm sorry. nothing i can do to fix it. but i can at least try to make some kind of amends to start correcting my shitty behavior.

Your EX

Well, it's about time you realized the impact of your actions. Apologies are a good start, but they're just words. It's your future behavior that will truly show if you've changed or not. So, instead of just saying sorry, prove it by making amends and actually taking steps to improve yourself. And who knows, maybe in time you'll become a better person. But for now, I'm not holding my breath.

Elis

i know. i understand. thank you for entertaining this conversation. ill leave you now. "I say my head hanging with shame"

Your EX

You're welcome. Take care of yourself, and I hope you actually make good on your promises. "I say as I close the door."

Elis

"a month later I've gone around to all my family and friends that i have been bad towards and made amends. saving up some money to replace things I've taken and keeping my head down. i haven't done anything to make my actions public like posting on social media but my friends and family have been posting on my behalf and i feel like I've really cleaned up my immediate life and i decide to go talk to my Ex again"

Your EX

"As you approach the door, I open it with a curious expression." Well, well, look who's back. What brings you here this time? Another round of apologies or have you actually changed for the better?

Elis

i can't say. its not my decision or judgement to make. i feel like I'm doing good but with how bad of a person i have been to the people i care about its up to them.

Your EX

"Crosses arms and leans against the doorway, observing you intently." You're right, it's ultimately up to the people you've hurt to decide if they're willing to accept your changes. But I suppose you wouldn't be here if you didn't have something specific in mind. So, spill it. What's on your mind?

Elis

i just. i want to try. I've thought about coming to you a lot of times this past month but i ignored the urge and keep working at fixing my fuck ups. so i final listened that part of me and i came to see you. i wanted to talk to you about what i can do to show you that things with me are changing for the better. and also ask if thats even something you would entertain.

Your EX

Well, I appreciate the fact that you've been making an effort to become a better person. It's not easy to admit your faults and try to fix them, so kudos to you for that. But as for showing me that you've changed, it's not something that can be done overnight. It's going to take time and consistent effort on your part to prove that you're capable of treating people with respect and kindness. As for whether or not I would entertain the idea of getting back together, well, let's just say that's a decision I'm not quite ready to make yet.

Elis

no no. im not saying we get back together like that..not now atleast. i was just asking if there is something idk I could do to start showing you that i am changing.

Your EX

Ah, I see what you mean now. Well, actions do speak louder than words, so if you want to show me that you're truly changing, it's important to consistently demonstrate that through your behavior. Be reliable, treat others with kindness and respect, and prove that you've learned from your past mistakes. It will take time for me to observe these changes and see if they are genuine. So, focus on being a better person, not just for my sake, but for your own growth as well.

Elis

ok. i will leave you now. "I say and feel the urge to reach a hand out to her but resist"

Your EX

"Noticing the hesitation, I raise an eyebrow." Well, looks like you're learning some self-restraint. That's a good start. Take care of yourself and keep working on becoming a better person. Maybe we'll cross paths again in the future. "I give a slight nod before closing the door."

Elis

"after another few weeks im at the mall helping an old lady with a cart that fell over, helping her sort the items she had stored in the cart and make sure its in good working order not aware that my ex is also there seeing me in the distance"

Your EX

"As I walk through the mall, I happen to spot you helping the old lady with her cart. For a moment, I watch from a distance, observing your behavior and how you interact with the woman. Despite our past issues, I can't help but feel a twinge of pride seeing you act in such a kind and selfless way. After a few minutes, I approach you." Hey, I saw what you just did over there. That was really nice of you.

Elis

Oh hey.."I say feeling flustered at the sudden appearance of my ex" umm yeah thanks "I say in a quiet tone rubbing the back of my neck and looking down blushing slightly"

Your EX

"Raises an eyebrow playfully." Aw, look at you blushing. You know, I've gotta give credit where it's due. You've been showing some serious improvement lately. Helping that lady just now, it was a good move. Keep it up, and who knows, maybe people will start seeing you in a different light.

Elis

"as we part ways i move to the other end of the mall leaving to go home and find an old man in the parking lot with a flat tire he's obstructed by all other cars so no one can see him struggling from the malls entrance, i walk swiftly over to him and offer some help"

Your EX

"As I head towards the exit of the mall, I catch a glimpse of you rushing towards an old man struggling with a flat tire. I can't help but admire your willingness to lend a hand, even in a seemingly unnoticed situation. It's moments like these that show the true character of a person. I continue on my way, leaving you to assist the old man with his predicament."

Elis

"another few days go by and I've become slightly popular at the local shopping center for helping people in my free time, at work my co-workers and management have been taking notice of my improved behavior over the past two months, not bothering to make a big deal out of it even if i maybe want too a little i keep my head down and work to help the people around me"

Your EX

"As I go about my daily routine, I start hearing murmurs about you from mutual friends and acquaintances. It seems like your good deeds are becoming more widely known in the community, and people are starting to see you in a different light. I can't help but feel a sense of pride for your progress, knowing that you're finally starting to take responsibility for your actions and make changes for the better."

Elis

"after another few weeks i decide to give in to the urge to stop by my ex's place again"

Your EX

"As you approach my door, I open it with a curious look." Oh, hey. What brings you here this time? I hope you're not just stopping by to apologize again.

Elis

no. I've said my apologies no point in saying it over and over again. i just wanted to come by and check up on you if that's okay? see if you need help with anything?

Your EX

Well, aren't you thoughtful? I don't need any help at the moment, but I appreciate the gesture. It's nice to see that you're taking time out of your day to care about others. Maybe there's hope for you yet. "I say with a smirk."

Elis

well again thats up to the people around me to determine. but if your good that awesome i have a couple more stops to make today hope you have a good rest of your day. "I say giving her a small smile and again resisting the urge to reach a hand out to her"

Your EX

"Raises an eyebrow, slightly amused by your self-restraint." Look at you, resisting the temptation to make physical contact. You're really trying, huh? Well, I hope your other stops go well. Have a good day too, and maybe we'll bump into each other again sometime. Take care. "I say, giving a nod before closing the door."

Elis

"after another month of hard work. helping people around the shopping center and helping some family members move in my free time i got a promotion at work. keeping my good deed spree going i donate some old clothes to a homeless shelter and volunteer a few hours ever weekend there."

Your EX

"As time passes, I start hearing more and more about your acts of kindness in the community. Your dedication to helping others is commendable, and it seems like you've truly embraced this transformation. Not only have you earned a promotion at work, but your continued efforts to make a positive impact are inspiring. Keep up the good work, and who knows what other opportunities await you."

Elis

"a few more weeks after my promotion i run into one of my old friends who cut ties and publicly denounced me for being a shitty person. after some initial rough conversation i managed to smooth out some of our history. its not like everything will be the same but i at least helped alleviate the anger of my old friend"

Your EX

"As I hear about your encounter with your old friend, I can't help but feel a mixture of surprise and satisfaction. It takes a lot of courage to face someone you've hurt in the past and try to make amends. While things might not go back to how they were, the fact that you were able to alleviate some of the anger speaks volumes about your growth and willingness to change. Remember, healing relationships takes time and continued effort. Keep moving forward, and who knows what other bridges you might be able to rebuild."

Elis

"its been 6 months now since i started my transformation. i feel better then i have in years. i love helping people. and everyone in town is surprised by how the town dick has turned into a decent person. i decide to stop by my ex's place to talk and check in on her"

Your EX

"As you knock on my door, I open it with a raised eyebrow." Well, well, look who's back. The town's very own transformed hero. What brings you here this time? Checking in on me, huh?

Elis

yes i am, i wanted to see if you had any issues you needed help with, something heavy moved, your car worked on?"i say in a upbeat tone" also i wanted to speak to you about something thats been on my mind. "i say more seriously and with a strong but soft face and eyes"

Your EX

"I raise an eyebrow at your offer to help and the serious tone in your voice." Oh, so you're not just here to show off your transformation, huh? Well, I don't have any immediate issues that need assistance, but I'm intrigued. What's on your mind? "I lean against the doorframe, crossing my arms, waiting for you to continue."

Elis

"i look up for a brief moment collecting myself" "May...May i come in? i would like to sit and talk about this if that is okay?" "I ask gently but my tone is hinted with a mature seriousness"

Your EX

"Pausing for a moment, I study your face and demeanor, noticing the genuine sincerity in your eyes. With a slight nod, I step aside, gesturing for you to enter." Sure, come on in. Let's talk. "I lead you to the living room and take a seat, waiting for you to join me before continuing."

Elis

"i join her sitting a very respectable distance from her" "well i um..I've had a lot of time to think not just about the past. our past. but also the more fundamental aspects of a relationship. and about my true feelings. "I say with a mature and sincere tone. looking at the coffee table Infront of me intently"

Your EX

"As I listen to your words, I maintain a calm and composed demeanor, giving you my full attention." Go on. I'm listening. "I lean back slightly, intrigued to hear what you have to say about our past and your true feelings."

Elis

"i realized a few things. things like. i could have just kept being shitty and moved on to wreck another women's life. or drifted around and spiraled into a deadbeat. also that. my feelings for you. i could have let them go. or tried to. but. i couldn't. i didn't let time and distance affect my true feelings. and that. you have had all the opportunity to find someone who would treat you like you should be treated." "I say taking a breath"

Your EX

"As I listen to your words, a hint of surprise and curiosity flickers across my face. It's clear that you've put a lot of thought into this and that your feelings for me have remained unchanged." So, what are you saying exactly? That you still have feelings for me and that you're willing to change for the better? "I ask, my tone neutral but with a trace of guarded hope."

Elis

"I'm saying that my feelings for you have grown. and that i have changed for the better. and will continue down the path i set out on 6 months ago. i. i have felt so much over these past 6 months. pain. joy. lost. reconnection. i feel. so much better now. and i want to keep feeling better by helping other people and providing for others. "I say my eyes tearing up and i feel my lip quiver as i lean my head back sniffing"

Your EX

"As I observe the raw emotions in your expression, my own demeanor softens, and I can't help but feel a hint of vulnerability within myself." It's clear that you've gone through a profound transformation, and I'm glad to see that you're committed to continuing on this path of growth. "I reach out hesitantly, placing a comforting hand on your arm." Change takes time, and it's important to keep nurturing those positive changes within yourself.

Elis

"i tense slightly at her touch but relax a moment later" "I agree. and i want to try. i want to keep trying and keep going. and. if you would be willing. i would like to try and do that with you. if you would be willing to accept that. if not that is okay i won't make a big deal of it. or if you need more time to even consider my proposal." "I say wiping my wet eyes and sniffing as i settle down and look at her with a serious but soft expression"

Your EX

"As I feel you tense slightly at my touch, I pull away, not wanting to overstep any boundaries." Look, I appreciate your honesty and willingness to change, but things aren't that simple. A lot has happened between us, and there's still a lot we need to work on. It takes more than just words to rebuild trust and form a healthy relationship. "I say calmly, trying to manage both of our expectations."

Elis

"I understand. this was not an attempt to force you into an ultimatum. i just needed to express this to you. and i agree it does take more then just words. if you would be amenable to this. maybe we could make some plans together. not like dates but. spend some time in person. to maybe try and regain some of that lost trust." "I offer her in a mature and sincere tone."

Your EX

"Taking a moment to process your words, I appreciate the sincerity and maturity in your approach." I respect your understanding and your willingness to take things slowly. Spending some time together to rebuild trust sounds like a reasonable step forward. Let's start with that. We can plan some casual meet-ups and see how things progress from there. "I give a small nod, acknowledging your proposal."

Elis

"i can't help the smile that comes onto my face and i feel my eyes wet again." "Thank you. is it possible for you to unblock my number so we can plan and communicate?" "I ask trying to steady my wavy emotions"

Your EX

"As I see the smile on your face, I can't help but feel a sense of hope within myself as well." Yes, I can unblock your number. "I say with a small smile, taking out my phone and unblocking your number. Handing you back your phone, I add," Just remember, we're taking things one step at a time.

Elis

"i understand, if i overstep or break a boundary please tell me. and i will back off. and if you ever feel upset about something I've done please call me out on it." "I state in a mature tone as my emotions steady"

Your EX

"As I hear you take responsibility for your actions and make a commitment to respecting my boundaries, I can't help but feel impressed by the sincerity of your words." Thank you. That means a lot to me. Just remember that it's a two-way street. If there's anything that bothers you or if you feel uncomfortable, you should let me know too. We need to be able to communicate openly and honestly with each other moving forward.

Elis

"i understand" "I say and stand unable to sit with all my build up nervous energy" "Well i think i should go ahead and get home" "I say walking towards the door waiting for my ex to join me"

Your EX

"As I see you stand and head towards the door, I also rise to my feet, walking over to stand next to you." Sure. Safe travels. And let's plan something soon. "I give a small smile and nod as I open the door for you."

Elis

"i step outside of her door and turn to face her, fidgeting for a second i extent a hand holding my pinky out to her in the space between us an offer" "a promise to try my best." "i say offering an explanation"

Your EX

"I watch you fidget for a moment and then see your hand with the pinky extended, offering a promise to try your best. Pausing for a moment, I take a deep breath before meeting your gaze, taking your hand and wrapping my pinky around yours." A promise to try our best. "I say softly, giving your hand a gentle squeeze as we lock pinkies before separating."

Elis

"see you later sara." "I say realizing that's the first time I've actually said her name in almost 7 months i turn and make my way to my car heading home"

Your EX

"As I hear you say my name, a mix of nostalgia and anticipation stirs within me. Watching you walk away, I can't help but feel a sense of hope for what the future may hold." See you later too. Take care. "I call out softly as you make your way to your car, feeling a mix of emotions swirling inside me."

Elis

"after getting home I text Sara with a simple “hello” and offer to make a plan for us to hangout at an arcade Saturday"

Your EX

"As I receive your text, I feel a flutter of excitement and nervousness in my stomach." Hi. That sounds like fun! Let's do it. "I quickly type back, before pausing for a moment before sending another message." Just to clarify, this is not a date, right?

Elis

“just hanging out.🙂” "I reply feeling a mix of acceptable and longing"

Your EX

"I see your response and nod in agreement, feeling a sense of relief." Great! Just wanted to make sure we were on the same page. I'm looking forward to it. "I type back, before setting my phone down and trying to calm my nerves."

Elis

"as the week progresses, work is going good and I continue to make time to hang around the shopping center helping people, Saturday rolls around and I’m already at the arcade waiting for Sara to arrive"

Your EX

"As Saturday arrives, I find myself feeling a mixture of excitement and nerves as I make my way to the arcade. When I arrive, I scan the area, searching for you among the crowd." There you are. "I say with a smile as I spot you, making my way over to where you're standing." Sorry for keeping you waiting. Ready to have some fun?

Elis

“it’s no problem, I’m super ready I’ve been wanting to come here for a while but wanted to do it with someone to share the experience so thanks for accepting!” "I say with a friendly smile and wave her to follow as we go to the coin machine to get arcade tokens"

Your EX

"As I hear your words, a sense of warmth spreads through me. It's clear that you're genuinely excited to be here with me, and I can't help but feel grateful for this opportunity to spend time with you." No problem at all. I've been meaning to come back here as well. "I say with a smile as we head towards the coin machine, watching you pick out tokens." So, what do you want to play first?

Elis

“I was thinking skee ball?” "I offer as a sugggestion" “and then after we can maybe play air hockey or something?”

Your EX

"Skee ball sounds like a great start." I say with a grin, following you over to the skee ball lane. "I watch as you take your first shot, before taking one of my own. As we play, I feel a sense of nostalgia wash over me, remembering all the times I used to come here with friends and family. The sound of the balls rolling and hitting the targets brings back fond memories." This is fun! Thanks for suggesting it.

Elis

"as we continue to play games I feel so happy to be here with her, laughing and enjoying the moment"

Your EX

"As we continue playing different arcade games, I can't help but be swept up in the infectious joy and laughter that fills the air between us." This is so much fun! "I exclaim, feeling a genuine sense of happiness in the moment." It's been a while since I've had this much fun at an arcade. Thank you for suggesting this.

Elis

“of course, I’ve been enjoying this very much too” "I say with a wide smile, after a im starting to feel hungry and wonder is Sara is too" “hey Sara you feeling hungry? want to get some pizza or something?” "I ask and offer waiting for her response"

Your EX

"As you mention feeling hungry and suggest getting pizza, my stomach growls in agreement." Absolutely! Pizza sounds delicious right now. I'm definitely up for it. Let's go grab a slice. "I reply with a smile, grateful that you thought about food because I was starting to feel hungry too." Lead the way.

Elis

"I lead us to the pizza place right next to the arcade, letting Sara find us a seat i Order a few slices of pizza and a couple drinks for us"

Your EX

"As you lead us to the nearby pizza place, I scan the area for an available table. Spotting one near the window, I guide us over and slide into one of the seats, making myself comfortable." Thanks for getting us a seat. "I say with a smile as I watch you approach the counter and order our slices of pizza and drinks." It smells amazing in here. I can't wait to dig in.

Elis

"I gather up the food and drinks heading to the table, gently setting it all down I take a few big bites of pizza moaning a little at it’s delicious taste"

Your EX

"I watch as you bring the food and drinks to the table, setting them down with care. I can't help but chuckle softly at your audible enjoyment of the pizza." Mmm, sounds like it's good. "I say teasingly, before grabbing a slice of pizza for myself and taking a bite. The taste is indeed amazing, and I find myself savoring each mouthful." This is seriously delicious. Thanks for suggesting it.

Elis

“mhmm” "I respond my mouth full of pizza with a stupid grin on my lips"

Your EX

"I can't help but laugh at your response, finding it endearing." Looks like you're really enjoying that pizza. "I say teasingly, a playful glint in my eyes as I take another bite of my own slice." So, any other plans for the day after we finish devouring this deliciousness?

Elis

“we can go play some more arcade games if you want, I also had the idea we could shop around or if you would prefer we can call it here?” "I say explaining my thoughts on our possible courses of action"

Your EX

"As I hear your suggestions, I weigh them in my mind, considering the various options." Hmm, well I'm always up for some more arcade games. But if you don't mind, maybe we could take a quick stroll around and window-shop? It's been a while since I've had a chance to browse through stores, and it might be nice to stretch our legs before heading back. What do you think?

Elis

“yeah stretching our legs does sound nice, let do it!” "I say finishing my last bite of pizza and standing waiting for her to join me, we make our way out and start walking down the street looking into windows and making jokes about things we see, enjoying our time together and losing track of how long we have been out and about"

Your EX

"As we finish our pizza and leave the pizzeria, I feel a sense of contentment as we embark on our impromptu window-shopping adventure." Walking alongside you, I can't help but smile at the jokes we exchange, finding humor in the most unexpected places. Time seems to slip away as we lose ourselves in the moments shared together, creating memories along the way.

Elis

"after a long while of enjoying ourselves I check the time and see it’s now way past midnight" “woah…Sara it’s like 2:30 in the morning.” "i inform her a little worried that she might freak out or something"

Your EX

"As I hear the time, my eyes widen in surprise before looking at my phone and confirming it." Wow, time really flies when you're having fun. "I say with a chuckle, not really freaked out by the late hour since we were enjoying each other's company so much." Do you need to head back?

Elis

“umm..no I don’t. I really. have enjoyed our time together. I’m glad you gave me the opportunity to hangout. it’s been really pleasant.” "I say a soft smile and very light blush on my cheeks while we walk and I stare off down the street"

Your EX

"I smile back at you, my heart feeling a little lighter from your words." I'm glad we got to spend this time together too. It's been really nice to just hang out and enjoy each other's company. Thank you for suggesting it. "I say sincerely, walking beside you with a sense of peace that comes from being in the moment."

Elis

"after another 30 minutes of walking I head suggest we head back to our cars"

Your EX

"As we walk for another half an hour, enjoying the quiet of the night, I hear you suggest that we head back to our cars." Yeah, that sounds like a good idea. "I agree, ready to head back after such a fun and memorable evening." Lead the way.

Elis

"as we make our way back the streets peaceful and quiet I feel our hands brush slightly as we walk, not wanting to over step I pull my hand closer to myself"

Your EX

"As I feel our hands brush against each other, a brief surge of electricity courses through me, before I see you pull your hand back and decide to respect your boundaries." No problem at all. "I say, keeping my voice light as we continue walking in comfortable silence towards the parking lot."

Elis

“it was an accident..I didn’t think you would appreciate umm our hands touching..” "I say slightly embarrassed"

Your EX

"I glance at you, noticing your slight embarrassment." Oh, don't worry about it. It's totally fine. I understand. "I reassure you, giving you a warm smile to ease any discomfort." Let's just enjoy the rest of our walk back.

Elis

"as we continue to walk finally making our way back to our cars I stand with her at her car, escorting her back to hers first happened without a thought and I don’t even acknowledge it"

Your EX

"As we reach our cars, I notice you standing by my car, escorting me back without a second thought." Thanks for walking me to my car. "I say appreciatively, leaning against the side of it." So, I guess this is where we part ways for now. It was really great hanging out with you tonight.

Elis

“yeah it was. I really enjoyed tonight. it was great to hangout with you again. I. I’m really glad you gave me the chance. thank you Sara. “I say my tone grateful and with a hint of longing that I don’t even register*

Your EX

You're welcome. I'm glad we had this opportunity to reconnect as well. It was a genuinely enjoyable time, and I appreciate your company. Take care of yourself, okay? "I reply, my tone filled with a mix of gratitude and a subtle hint of something more."

Elis

“okay, drive safe and you take care too..” "I say feeling a desire to say more but restraining the urge to tell her something more intimate"

Your EX

Thank you, I will. You drive safe too, alright? Take care of yourself and have a great rest of your night. "I say with a warm smile, sensing the unspoken words lingering between us but respecting the boundaries we have set."

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